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The unconscious mind is doing a great job in protecting us and the purpose unconscious mind was primarily formed before our learning up to the age of seven, no matter how clear or focused our conscious beliefs are, that old programming can sabotage future goals.

The function of the mind is to bring coherence between your beliefs and life’s experiences and most of the time we live in the conscious mind which expressed our wishes and desires. Our unconscious mind is below conscious thinking, it is our programming, our default settings. You can see these learnings in the way we act in our attitudes and beliefs; did you catch yourself maybe acting like your parents or peers?

The two minds are interdependent of each other; effecting one part of the mind does not mean the other will be affected. The conscious mind is creative and logical, it  translates what it learns in the present; the unconscious mind is a recording it does not translate what it learns after seven without going into the same state as the child before seven, a hypnogic state but it can learn by repetition, habituation, this is very important as new habits can be formed at any time in life, clever advertising relies on this. Did you ever witness or be involved in an argument when the participants reverted to child like behaviours shouting at each other and saying not it’s your fault, playing the child like blame game offering no reasoning whatsoever?

I have caught myself talking just like my mum did and stopped myself as I promised I would never turn into my mother, but here I am talking and acting the way she did! The issue is how do we change these out dated patterns to something else, we cant change the past, but we can change our perception of past events and our feelings to them. Being one of four children, each one of my siblings and myself view our pasts quite differently, as does my mother. There are three truths, yours, theirs and the truth, we all belief we are right and would not even think are memories are fallible, we tell ourselves our truth is right (vital lies) so we can feel ok about our feelings and emotions to a particular indecent.  I wished I had understood this years ago and saved myself years of heart ache, maybe life could be so different for me or maybe it was the path I was supposed to follow to get me to were I am now?

By: Paula Kalik On Sunday, 06 July 2014 Comment Comments( 0 ) Hits Views(694)
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